Archive for 'fear' tag

How To Conquer Your Deepest Secret Fears

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

Not long ago I was stuck in a dingy machine shop 20 miles from nowhere waiting around for the mechanics to install a new pipe and muffler on my car.
This was not because I love automobiles or get some kind of visceral thrill from rumbling engines and screaming tailpipes.
No I was here because not 3 [...]

Why You’re Not Getting The Women You Really Want

Sunday, October 26th, 2008

You’re in a supermarket, on a bus, or in a restaurant. You see a girl who is just so perfect – the exact look you like, the body you dream about, and glowing a sort of irresistible feminine energy that could melt cheese from across the room.
And what did you do?
That’s easy. You did what [...]

Understanding Hedonism Part 4: What’s The True Measure of Success?

Saturday, August 9th, 2008

Normally, my existential views would automatically lead me to say “Success is anything you want it to be. It’s up to you to give your life meaning.”
And that’s still true.
But since we’re all flesh-and-blood biological machine human beings who cannot rise above our own humanity (not that we’d WANT to, but still) there exists a [...]

Understanding Hedonism and Embracing Your Own Freedom

Sunday, August 3rd, 2008

“No human thing is of serious importance.” – Plato
“Pleasure is the beginning and end of living happily.” – Epicurus
“A well-spent day brings happy sleep, so a life well spent brings happy death.” – Leonardo da Vinci
“One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one’s work is terribly important.” – Bertrand [...]

How To Make Yourself Immune To Jealousy

Monday, April 21st, 2008

The period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one. I think it’s easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship…
“What’s going to happen?”
“Will I ever meet another woman?”
“How do I [...]